He’s just not that into you..really

1) why didnt he call me back when he said he would?

2) he says nice things to me, but then disappears for a week, comes back and says he was swamped with work

3) he calls me everyday to ask how my day was and what i am going to do on the weekend, but never asks me out

etc…etc…

The answer to all these questions are “HE’S NOT INTO YOU!” Women spend too much time looking for things that aren’t there. THey overanalyze situations with men, why did he say that? why did he do that? when in reality, there is nothing there. Most men are straightforward. If they are into you, they WILL tell you. If they are wishy washy, they are not worth your time. Our expectations of men are too low. We get excited if they call a week later from when they are suppose to because “HEY AT LEAST THEY CALLED..that means he LIKES me and was thinking about me!” no no..that means..HE’S NOT INTO YOU! he just doesn’t want to make you cry like a little girl by never ever calling you.

So here’s my advice.

Men: If you are one of those rare men who aren’t straightforward or who thinks he likes a girl but isn’t ready for a commitment, don’t play with the girl’s feelings. Go “find” yourself, and after you find yourself and become a real man, then commit.

Women: All of this can be summed up with one quote, one of my favorites:

“Don’t make someone your priority when you still remain their option”

If you are ready to make someone ur first priority, wait for their call, drop everything to go hang out with them, that person better be doing the same for you, otherwise he is not worth it. Don’t put your head down for anyone, and that will make people stand up and notice.